Should Beginners Learn to play Guitar Solo or Play With Other People?
Mark Mannering Barton - Pick to Play Guitar
A lot of beginner guitar players assume they need to reach a certain level before playing with other people.
So they spend months or even years practising entirely on their own, waiting until they feel “good enough”.
The reality is:
you usually improve far faster once music becomes something shared.
That doesn’t mean every beginner should immediately join a band.
But it does mean playing with other people is often far less scary and far more useful than people expect.
Learning alone has real advantages
There’s nothing wrong with learning guitar solo.
In fact, for many beginners, it’s the most comfortable place to start.
Practising alone allows you to:
learn at your own pace
build confidence privately
repeat things without pressure
focus on songs you personally enjoy
For many adults especially, that relaxed approach makes learning feel much more manageable.
But playing with others teaches different skills
At some point, music changes when other people are involved.
Even very simple playing with another guitarist, singer or drummer starts developing:
timing
listening
rhythm consistency
confidence
musical awareness
These are difficult to fully develop in isolation.
Playing with others also teaches something important:
music is not about perfection.
Most beginner players are far more worried about mistakes than anyone listening to them actually is.
You don’t need to be “advanced”
This is one of the biggest misconceptions.
You absolutely do not need to be a technically advanced player before jamming with someone else.
Even knowing:
a few chords
basic rhythm patterns
simple song structures
is enough to start making music with other people.
In fact, many beginners improve more quickly because playing with others keeps things enjoyable and motivating.
Solo playing and band playing are different experiences
Interestingly, some excellent solo players struggle when playing with others.
And some fairly simple players sound great in a group setting because they:
keep good time
listen well
support the song
Being a good musician is not just about complexity.
Often, simple playing done confidently and consistently sounds far better than overplaying.
Confidence grows through doing it
A lot of beginner anxiety comes from imagining everyone else is judging them.
In reality, most musicians remember exactly what it felt like to start.
Playing with other people can actually reduce pressure over time because you stop focusing entirely on yourself.
You start listening, reacting and enjoying the music more naturally.
You don’t need to choose one or the other
It’s not really:
solo or band.
Most players benefit from both.
Solo practice helps build technique and familiarity.
Playing with others develops musicality, timing and confidence in a completely different way.
The two approaches support each other.
Start simpler than you think
People often imagine “playing with others” means performing live or joining a serious band.
Usually it starts much smaller:
playing with a friend
learning songs together
simple rhythm guitar
casual jam sessions
That’s more than enough.
The goal is enjoying playing
For most people, guitar lasts when it stays enjoyable.
That enjoyment often comes from:
playing songs you love
sharing music with others
feeling gradual progress
not overcomplicating things
You do not need to become a virtuoso to enjoy playing guitar properly.
Relaxed guitar lessons in Richmond, Teddington & online
If you’re learning guitar and feeling unsure where to start, I offer relaxed, one-to-one guitar lessons focused on helping beginners play real music confidently without pressure or overcomplication.
Lessons are available in-person around Richmond and Teddington, as well as online across the UK.
Whether you want to play solo at home or eventually play with other people, the important thing is simply getting started.
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